Oh dear! Tobias, this isn't about my state of mind :'(
Just read , I mean really try and read what you and Wi77y have written.
Yes, we all make mistakes....some more than others.
It is fairly obvious you are a rider of limited experience by your comments
Wi77y put himself in a very vulnerable position. Doesn't matter how laid back you wanna be about it.
Just don't go round looking to blame someone else when you get it all wrong!