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Nelly
20-04-12, 06:16 PM
This is quite a long post but please take a couple of minutes to have a read. About 3 weeks ago I was contacted by a forum member and asked if we would consider doing some fundraising for someone that needs a bit of help. The forum member told me about a young lad called Ollie and his parents Les and Jane. She asked if there was any chance that we could put our heads together to raise so money for this young lad. He took a turn for the worse just before Christmas and his life is now very limited. His parents need a special hoist for him so he can use his hot tub which he desperately needs for his rehab. He has major brain surgery ahead and he loves being in water. Please be clear that his hot tub is quality of life for him.
I got in touch with his Mum and asked if I could go over to have a chat with her. I had the most amazing meeting with the lovely Ollie and his fabulous parents Les & Jane. I have never been so humbled in my life. Here is Ollie’s story.
Ollie is 16 years old and has the mental ability of a 6-18 month old child. He is severely autistic and also has severe epilepsy. In February 2010 he was taken into Bath RUH after suffering a prolonged seizure. At first it was thought he had suffered a stroke but it was actually a form of encephalitis, which is a viral infection on the brain. (http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/rasmussen/rasmussen.htm ) He was very poorly but made a good recovery, however his left side was left damaged and he is no longer able to use his left arm, apart from for clapping! This has proved difficult for him in his mobility and hydrotherapy was introduced as a way of exercise in a way he did not realise what was happening, he absolutely loves being in water and is a very happy young man whilst in there. Jane’s parents gave them some money in October 2011 to buy a hot tub which he used almost on a daily basis and it was helping with his exercises.
In November 2011 Ollie suffered another prolonged seizure which this time resulted in his lung collapsing and he also had pneumonia. He was ventilated and he and his parents were in the children’s intensive care unit at Bristol Children’s Hospital for over 2 weeks and then another 2 weeks rehab in Bath. For 3 days it was touch and go, very frightening for them all. He defied the medical profession by a) surviving and b) leaving hospital a lot sooner than expected. However whilst we were in Bristol we received a diagnosis of Rasmussen’s Encephalitis. This is a life limiting and life threatening diagnosis. It affects the left side of the brain which controls movement, balance and coordination. Sadly it is clear that some reduction in his mobility is already happening. The right side of Ollie’s brain is also shrinking, quicker than was thought and as such he has to have brain surgery in the next 6 months to separate the two halves of the brain. It is hoped that this will stop the serious seizures which happen every 2 months and always result in going too hospital. It sadly will not stop the Rasmussen’s which will take away the little abilities Ollie has. He will end up in a wheelchair and will have to be peg fed, a tube into the stomach, as he will not be able to chew or swallow. The rehab for the surgery will be at least 3 months in hospital and it can take up to 2 years for a "normal" person to be back where they were prior to the surgery. The need to be able to get Ollie in and out of his hot tub is huge, they also need to be able to remind him of something that he loved greatly but also the exercise and rehab point of view is huge.
Both parents have back problems and Jane has had to go into hospital to have her spine fused. As Ollie as grown older he has got bigger and getting him in and out of the tub is proving a problem. They really need a hoist. When they first decided that it was the way forward they thought they would need around £750. But that figure was just to order it. The true cost of the hoist is near £4000. On top of that, each room in their house will have to be fitted with hoists in case Ollie has a fall around the home following a seizure. The Management and staff of Wiltshire Bikers would dearly like to help this family out.
For the past 13 years Les & Jane have worked tirelessly to raise money for OTHER people’s disabled children. Jane works as a support worker for disabled adults and in her "spare" time raises money and support for HCPT (handicapped children’s pilgrims trust), MOVE which is a specialised physiotherapist and the North Wilts Holiday Club. Which take kids like Ollie on holiday so that the parents can get some respite as well. In the past Jane and Les have run Marathons, Organised sponsored walks, dances, parachute jumps to raise money for someone else.
We’ve had some ideas in the Staff team which include a bike stuff sale with some of the proceeds going toward the fund, a sort of point to point where the entrants get as many snaps of them in front of village name signs over the course of a month, paid rides, a joint WB car boot sale, bucket collections on 4 Wednesday nights in the summer. But we need some more ideas. So it’s over to you lovely lot. You guys have been fantastic in the past when it comes to supporting causes and we hope that you will get on board with us on this one. Whilst the staff team are happy to take on the organising of the fund raising, we obviously would welcome any help that you folks may offer.

Nelly
20-04-12, 06:17 PM
We also realise that it is not everyone will be able to help out or necessarily agree with the “campaign”. We are in the middle of some tough times and everyone’s pockets are currently being emptied at a shocking rate. We of course, respect your decisions. However, can I ask that if you don’t want to get involved for any reason at all, please do not post negative comments in this thread. I’d like to keep the thread as ‘clean’ as possible so that anything that is added doesn’t get lost in the muddle. Any posts go off topic will be removed.
Thank you for reading

Dabz has also very kindly let us use the Wiltshire bikers Paypal address is anyone would like to make a direct contribution to the fund. Please add a note on there that it is a donation for Ollie.

wiltshire builders
20-04-12, 06:28 PM
How about a sponsored team in the Chippenham raft race this year. It'd get good coverage in the local papers too.

Loops
20-04-12, 07:04 PM
Good idea. We did well last year too, so if we can do it again it should get good coverage and may help bring in money after the event too.

Is there a justgiving or similar page yet Nelly?

I can't think of anything myself right now, but I shall put my mind to it :)

Senna(Dan)
20-04-12, 07:34 PM
Nelly,
If we can secure some real estate for a charity bike wash do you reckon this would help?
If we charged say a fiver a bike and had a bbq on the go as well, parents could bring their kids along and adore the fine metal.
I don't know anywhere that would be suitable, but somebody with a very large car park would be beneficial.

Nelly
20-04-12, 07:53 PM
Is all very new at the moment. Hadnt considered the just giving page as yet, but ya never know. Keep them coming. :)

Jacde
20-04-12, 08:10 PM
if i can help in any way with fund raising, just let me know.
Everyone, as you have already said Nelly, needs to be under no illusion how hard it is to raise money. I managed over £3000 in about 18 months to go to the Cancer charities but it was bloody hard going.
A bag pack in a Supermarket is often a good way to raise money, if folk are prepared to give up a Saturday then that#s an idea to consider.

Loops
20-04-12, 10:02 PM
How about a cake sale? Either on its own or as part of something else. There are a few of us on here who are pretty good at baking I believe.

bubblylittleme
21-04-12, 09:34 AM
This lad goes to St Nicholas School so you can meet him yourself next Friday if you visit.

mick_benson
22-04-12, 06:47 PM
happy to help if i can

Beamer
23-04-12, 08:10 PM
Hi All

I am looking into a bit of a fun exercise for everyone if they wish to take part.

It will be on throughout the month of July and is open to everyone.

It will mean riding around the county having your photograph taken with as many town/village signs in
WILTSHIRE
as possible (the name signs you pass on the way into towns/villages)

The only catch is......you need to 'buy' a laminated number and it must be visible in the photograph.
The number will cost £5 per bike and all the money raised will be going into
OLLIE'S FUND


The numbers will be on sale from next Wednesday at the Harp and your name will be registered with that number.
I will give out the actual laminated numbers on Wednesday 30th June so everyone has a fair chance at getting as many photos taken in the alloted time.

The closing date will be Saturday 28th July at the Calne Bike Show.

The winner will be announced at the Summer Party on Saturday 4th August


As we are still begging for prizes I can't actually say what the winner will receive
BUT, this is for
OLLIE'S FUND
so by just taking part in this bit of fun you will be able to help Ollie and his family


The only stipulations are
1, That you must park carefully whilst having the photo taken.
2, You must have your number visible in the photo.


If you want to be in teams then that is fine, but it will still be £5 per bike


This will last through the most of July so it is not a race !!!

It may be that the teams or individuals might like to plan mini ride-outs around the countryside taking photos and enjoying the rides too...its your choice.


Any queries or questions please ask

Any critisisms or put downs......keep them to yourself

(Im doing this to start the ball rolling for young OLLIE and his family)



P.S. If there is anyone out there that would like to donate a prize for this event or for any of the other events that are to be arranged for Ollie then please could you let Nelly know...thank you in anticipation

Kopite
24-04-12, 08:03 PM
1782 members x £2.50 = £4455. Job done!......if only!
Less than the price of a pint. ( if it was a fiver we could help more worthy causes!)

redken1
24-04-12, 08:06 PM
As per other thread will donate a prize of a bottle of spirits for this worthy cause.

Nelly
24-04-12, 08:19 PM
As per other thread will donate a prize of a bottle of spirits for this worthy cause.

Thanks Ken, very generous
:)

Jane_G
24-04-12, 08:56 PM
:) My name is Jane and I just wanted to introduce myself and say a MAHUGE THANKYOU to everyone for taking the team to read Nelly's (lonnnggggggg!!!)story at the start of the thread and for all of you wonderful peeps for taking the trouble and time to get involved with the fundraising for my Ollie. I very much look forward to meeting up with you all and obviously will bring Ollie to one of your meetings and the many events we are organising between us. Again many thanks and we really appreciate everything you are doing for Ollie. :D

Bondy
24-04-12, 09:51 PM
Awww would be glad to help in any way shape or form..so count me in for the photo thing in July..and I will donate a large tin of Chocy's ...I will rack my brain as to another fund raiser ....
and the raft race is a good idea ...although we will win this year ...sorry Wiltshire builders...lol...only joking.. ::)
Nice to hear from you Jane ...take care Bondy xxxx

Nelly
24-04-12, 09:54 PM
Bondy, you taking on the challenge of the raft race again then?
Essex?
Mikey?
Jackie?
Sue?

come on, you know you want to

"im getting the band back together"
(Blues Brothers 1979)

ScooterMan
27-04-12, 05:04 PM
I'm ollie stepdad .. Les ... Im up for anything and everything... I might regret it.. But I know the cause ... Im not gonna sit back and watch you guys n girls make money by doing silly things ... So if there's anyone who wants ... To think of things to do Please include me... I maybe 50 ... And stupid but hey who cares......

Beamer
27-04-12, 05:14 PM
I'm ollie stepdad .. Les ... Im up for anything and everything... I might regret it.. But I know the cause ... Im not gonna sit back and watch you guys n girls make money by doing silly things ... So if there's anyone who wants ... To think of things to do Please include me... I maybe 50 ... And stupid but hey who cares......



Hey there Les............Age has absolutely nothing to do with it hehe.....we're all nuts on here (in one way or another)

If theres an event planned just bung your name on the list and join in ......you might even find someone to give you a pillion seat occasionally too hehe

Nice to meet you and Ollies mum too ....welcome to site by the way ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

chrissy
11-05-12, 10:24 PM
count me in on anything i can do for ollie im good friends with jane and i know she would do the same for my little boy so i would be up for anything so give me a shout xxxx

chrissy
25-05-12, 09:11 AM
hay nelly i have not go a clue wot im doing cause i have not done a raft race b4 bu u can count me in im game just let me know wen and were it is il be there lol

Loops
25-05-12, 06:03 PM
We mentioned this yesterday at the H&C - really need to get started on the raft if we're gonna do it again this year.

Chrissy, as long as you don't mind getting wet and can wield a paddle you can be in the raft race!

Nelly
29-05-12, 04:44 PM
Come on then Loops, getting going :)

Senna(Dan)
29-05-12, 05:13 PM
When this raft thing likely to be Loops, and have you started building yet