Tricky one.
Like WR said this is The Daily Mail so a lot of it will be sensationalised rubbish.

Dave is right that people do have to move on but I doubt the family stalked her.
More likely the Mail found out about the posts then told the family. That's the sort of thing they do.
On the surface she does seem a bit insensitive and not as punishing of herself as she made out to the court.