As per other annual threads on similar subjects, once you get a number of different but still valid points of view, the overall content of the thread takes on a much more subjective tone.

So, Nicky, how will you be presenting this to your OH? ;D ;D Will you let us know?

Maybe some people just want to be left to make their own choices in life without being told,pressured or made to feel uneasy about their own decisions - I know when I was a smoker, everytime my mum told me to quit I got rankled and ended up smoking more. As soon as she quit moaning about it - I quit. Logical no, understandable yes...maybe....well just me perhaps ;D